Let's just say that women never know what they want, and modern beauties don't know even more, but under the "truth serum" they told us a lot of interesting things.
Men are very simple creatures: if a woman is attractive, they want to get to know her, and if she is also smart or interesting, they want to get to know her better. Women, meanwhile, are much more complex creatures: most of them have an impressive list of characteristics that an attractive man must meet. And the female criteria are much more complex than the male “beautiful”, “sexy” and “smart”. What does a modern woman want from a man?
Independence
Women want to be sure that their partner can take care of themselves. A modern woman needs an independent man who is able to make decisions on her own, pay for an apartment and cook dinner. No matter what men think, no woman wants to play the role of a second mother for a man - and therefore a man who constantly needs motivation, help and persuasion is not very attractive to a modern woman.
Appearance
It is not for nothing that women are called the fair sex - they look much more beautiful than men with their angular figures, hairy backs and eternal inability to dress. One of the main feminine virtues is the desire to spend time in the company of a man, despite his "monkey" appearance. However, for a woman, the appearance of a man is just as important (although not to the extent that for a man it is a woman's appearance) - therefore, it is worth making at least some efforts in order to minimize your own resemblance to a monkey. A woman does not need much - just try not to forget about the razor, wear the clothes that suit you and stay in at least some form.
Positive attitude towards life.
A positive attitude towards life is another important characteristic of the "ideal" man. Cynicism and sarcasm certainly have a right to exist, but no one wants to be around a cynic all the time - it gets tired. In contrast, the presence of a person nearby, who is able to see something positive in any situation, charges with additional energy. Optimism not only makes others feel better, but it can also inspire - which is why it is on the list of characteristics that women value so much in men.
Communication skills
A good conversationalist is one of the most attractive male characteristics in the eyes of a modern woman: most women need a man to talk to, who is not afraid to express his own opinion and at the same time is ready to listen to a woman's stories about her hopes, desires and fears.
Perhaps, perhaps the most important communication skill is the ability to be attentive: sometimes all that is required from a man to a woman is just to listen. Meanwhile, for a man, it becomes very difficult to play the role of such a silent listener - but if you can demonstrate to a woman that you can pay attention to her, the chances of a successful date will increase.
Ability to support the company.
Every woman needs a man who can keep up a conversation with her work colleagues, friends, or parents. A high "social IQ" through the eyes of a woman is not a shy or naturally silent partner, but a man who is not embarrassed when meeting strangers.
Sense of humor.
A good sense of humor is one of the characteristics that every woman wants to see in her chosen one. We all know how much more attractive people are who are able to dilute a conversation with a good joke in time, people who are boring and gloomy. This, however, does not mean that in order to attract a woman, you must always remain the "soul of the company". A good sense of humor just means you know how and when to joke on time.
Ambition
Too often, men think that all a woman cares about is money. This is true for some women - as it is for some men, but women are not always attracted to wealthy men. The reason women like men with successful careers is not the size of their wallet, but evidence that such a man has the willpower, discipline, and talents to build a career. Such a man is the best partner in the eyes of a woman.
Confidence
Possession of all of the above characteristics or some of them does not always make a man an ideal in the eyes of a woman. The most important and most attractive male trait for women is self-confidence. As long as you are confident in yourself and know that you have something to offer a woman, you have a chance to win her sympathy.
