It is impossible to resist the charm of the seducer, because he has excellent command of the weapon, with the help of which the enemy is taken prisoner.
On the catcher and the beast runs. Women would not be so seductive, a man would behave approximately and quietly, like a lamb. But Eve did not listen to the serpent. Since this all started! It is clear that if you want to win the heart of a woman, you must seduce her. Well, if not for its irresistible appearance, then at least for some vague prospects. For example, a crystal palace or a desert island.
It is also clear that, having set the teeth on edge from frequent repetitions, a man for many centuries was tired of repeating himself. Hence the development in breadth and depth of the methods of the art of seduction.
However, the legendary seducers and seducers, at whose feet the "victims" of different sexes fell as if knocked down, suggest some kind of untold talent in communication, a gift from heaven. Naturally, it is not without talent, but what kind?
It turns out that the main secret of any seduction is self-irony! Such a simple and such complex talent to achieve almost everything … or everything. A self-ironic person can easily relieve stress, soften a dramatic situation, or easily change their role.
What is good about an ironic man: he is clearly aware of his advantages and disadvantages, he does not hide them, and this helps him to appear in front of a woman in the most favorable light. And then he can simply hint to the future "victim" that he is not even worthy of the little finger on her lovely leg … At this moment, she will most likely relax a little, and this will be her main mistake. Relaxing, especially with an experienced seducer, is never worth it! The seducer is a spider that is just waiting for its prey!
A woman must always remember - of course, not in the case when she herself is glad to be deceived - that the ability to laugh at the established rules is the main quality of a seducer. After all, by doing so, he eliminates the risk of being taken too seriously. And in the absence of indisputable advantages, such as, for example, an ideal figure or a brilliant appearance, the ability to smile and joke in time is practically the only way to seduce someone who is at his gunpoint.
Easily, even without having a special intellect, the seducer overcomes natural constraint and distrust, his words easily flow, envelop like a cloud, naturally destroying barriers in communication with strangers. The first most important step has been taken, the battlefield remains with him.
One has only to observe how the seducer skillfully uses his own mistakes and turns them into advantages to make sure that these words are true. This maneuver creates a pleasant environment that completely disorients the "enemy".
The secret is simple and complex at the same time - it is necessary to become the center of attraction for the attention of others. It is not difficult for a seducer to find a common topic for discussion, irony, even in a casual meeting with an unfamiliar woman. The technique that he uses to disguise possible contradictions, turning the situation into a kind of game. The “victim” who decided to take part in such a game first runs away and hides, but then invariably gives up.
It is impossible to resist the charm spiced with humor, because this is the very weapon with which the enemy is taken prisoner. In addition, humor can maintain confidence in a couple when the situation is difficult and its depressing seriousness begins to weigh on both sides.
A real seducer knows how to calm him down in order to find a way out of any situation with a fresh mind. In this case, he appears before the "victim" as a true savior, which immeasurably increases his rating in her eyes. The halo of charm begins to shine brighter, blinding the "victim". And now she is already irrevocably smitten.
The seducer has an excellent sense of proportion. He always knows when self-irony is inappropriate. When touching points that are really painful, he is invariably delicate.
Avoiding the seducer's spider paws is also a talent. Moreover, no less than mastering the art of seduction!
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