This is how luxurious, talented, intelligent men of crazy beauty and powers like gods disappear. It usually happens at midnight … men change
“You gave me this world as a toy, I will return it to you intact;
I find you in the tenderness of the wind, in each passing wave, I didn’t even think that this was possible, I didn’t think it was about me.
And it's about me. It's about me.
BG "It's up to me" Boys play with toys. They have a lot of cars, then mobile phones appear. Having matured a little, they download pictures, melodies, games from the Internet. When a boy becomes a big uncle, he can already smoke, drink, drive a big car. But, despite his changed appearance, he essentially remains the same baby. Its main goal is play and entertainment.
He can no longer obey his mother and even start his own family for the sake of solidity. But before this inevitable marriage, you need to "take a walk" - to be like a disco, drink vodka and beer with friends, take the girls home and maybe even fall in love a couple of times. And then you have to think about how to find a "real" woman who has many different abilities and skills for a real peasant life. It is necessary to get another mother who will make him in the eyes of those around him quite a real man.
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Of course, a wife quickly grows old from such a load, becomes very scary, and she gets illnesses, and she goes to hospitals - but her appearance is not particularly disturbing to the peasant, because the main thing is that she remains efficient in any conditions.
Girls dream of a family from early childhood, in games they build a model of relations between men and women. They worry to tears about what is happening with Barbie and Ken, passions and love sufferings are only toys at first, and then - films, poems, books - everything is about love!
When true love comes, it blows your head right away! After all, she is already ready for this hurricane, the nuances and subtleties of the sensual world have been passed. For many girls, the scenario of life together was written long before the wedding. Children, things, environment - everything should be like people. Almost from birth, the girl is hammered into her main task in life: to find a non-drinker, hard-working man - nothing more is required of him. And she will have to support the household and give birth to children. What could be easier ?!
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But how much easier the life of a man in marriage! You can not read good books, drink beer not only in the garage, but also at home. Not to mention the fact that you don't have to wash the dishes, don't take out the trash, don't go to the store, don't do the laundry and don't cook meals - after all, all this will be done by his wife, his second mother. Although some women can teach their husbands to serve coffee in bed, and run the household on an equal basis with her. But all the same, on his own initiative, he will not do anything, therefore, instead of asking, demanding, pleading, reminding - it is better to ask a neighbor or do it yourself.
A married man knows very well that he is being controlled and manipulated by a woman. And even if he says “Listen to the woman and do the opposite,” he still listens to her always and in everything.
A married man is not interested in anything in life at all, he is paralyzed by family plans, relatives from all sides put pressure on him, demand money, some actions, he is bound by obligations and responsibility for the existence and problems of people who depend on him.
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It is no longer possible to get him out of this state, because a stubborn, unambiguous person already needs to be saved, reanimated! But he does not want salvation - neither from music, nor from love.
In essence, man in the usual sense of the word is no longer there, he has turned into a shadow. It is impossible to see him walking calmly down the street, in his soul there is a terrible discomfort. Therefore, he is forced to withdraw into himself. He does not want to discover new things for himself, to understand and feel something different, unusual. Life and a specific situation are much deeper and more interesting than he sees, but he does not feel it at all.
He does not want to strain and think that there is a more interesting and deeper way of life. When a girl comes and says: "Come with me - and you will be GOD", - he replies: "Will you make me ****?" He prefers primitive disgusting. "And yesterday's rebel and yesterday's singer began to make money."
This is how luxurious, talented, intelligent men of crazy beauty and powers like gods disappear. This usually happens at midnight …