Now it is much easier to achieve success, so to speak, in a career than in your own home. How to succeed one hundred percent in this life?
Many have learned and know how to succeed in their business. That is, at work. Business success and so on is the most pressing topic today. There are so many different training centers and various audio courses, books and seminars where you will be taught to be an iron leader, unshakable in decision-making, you will develop exactingness and toughness of character, that is, all those qualities that are supposedly simply necessary to survive in tough competition. This is all, of course, we need, men. But what is it like to be at home when, for example, the father-director remains the director at home? Hence a couple of questions. What training courses have you taken in order to become truly the head of the family? And is family a priority for you at all? If not, please postpone this article until better times. And I will continue to bring you to the topic of the family.
As one wise man said: "If the wife and children do not run happily towards the returning head of the family, then something is wrong in the house."
Everyone understands that success at work bears great fruit and many successful men have managed to reach them. Now it is much easier to achieve success, so to speak, in a career than in your own home. This is all because society has become completely different. The requirements for the competing parties have become much higher, international communications are involved. And society creates institutions in order to support the individual, but not the family, that is, a group of individuals. If earlier everything was absolutely conducive to helping a person organize family activities, recreation or family development, now all this seems impossible for joint activities. That is, there was a kind of safety cushion on the part of society and the state, which could cover up your shortcomings in family development. Previously, the family tried to turn to society, and this contributed to its development. But now it is completely different. Families who consider the preservation and development of the family as a priority in their lives try to close and isolate themselves from society. And they are doing it, by and large, right. They do not let in the family all the poison that floats in the masses. I mean the cult of individuality. Striving for isolation and constant shifting of responsibility. And what we see in the end. Most successful men just have to compromise. Or cut yourself off at work, or cut back on your family time. But you understand that in fact there are no only two options by nature. It never happens in life that you have to choose only between some two things. There is always at least a third option - ALTERNATIVE. If you make changes from the very root of relationships, both in the family and at work, while making the family a priority, then you can find out what fruits all this promises. I do not think that you would blindly want to march behind the spirit of the times, where it is proposed to achieve only half of success.
Now, in fact, you can hear from everywhere how a busy person's day goes by. He goes to work in the morning, then runs off to training on sales, for example, then reads in his office, in the evening he will drop into a restaurant, and there he can already go home to spend the night. The family on this kind of schedule of the day seems like a burden. Or here's an example. Just think how often it happens that people take partners in the case of completely "strangers", and yet in their own family there are people necessary for development. For example, you go to a doctor's appointment and pay him crazy money, while your doctor cousin is looking for a job. Or you are looking for a new commercial director, and your godfather has been in economics all his life. Only now it is necessary to educate this mutual assistance with all the commitment to the family and its values.
You understand that there is an opportunity to succeed one hundred percent in this life. And feel what joy both working time and the time when, it turns out, to be with your family will give you. This is just a small fraction of the fruits that the right family life will bring to you. And much greater results can be achieved in life if you build a family position. Why deprive yourself of the delights of life. A lucky man is lucky in everything! It is really courageous to be successful in the family and in your business.
