People are all beautiful, all are smart from the start. But over time, life factors and so on leaves their imprints on each or each of us. Beauty or Mind?
How much has been written on this topic. And opinions, as, indeed, in any other issue, a million and a small cart, and each in his own way is right.
And my personal subjective opinion - there should be no union between these two words "or". Then there will be harmony in a person. Each person should strive for a balanced combination of beauty and intelligence. Many, of course, will begin to argue with me and argue that it is easy to speak and not everyone is given intelligence and beauty. And I believe that to everyone, simply by virtue of the cliches that have become established in the world, everyone simply does not seek this in himself and does not try to develop and love himself as he is.
People are all beautiful, all are smart from the start. But over time, life factors, various social conditions, etc., etc., etc. leave their imprints on each or each of us, and developed standards, and their purely personal opinions already written by someone transform us or sometimes drive us into such a tight framework that getting out of there can be difficult, and for many there is no need, after all, it’s so good.
Yes, and the concept of beauty or mind, as well as truth, each has its own purely individual. Many of us tend to use clichés and cliches when assessing certain qualities, circumstances and not develop our imagination, and do not try to look at a person, qualities or circumstances from a different angle.
There are cases when a person who is very inclined to numerous discussions, while not always in the place or in the case, to a taciturn person (which, nevertheless, does not mean he has no mind or some kind of closeness) sticks a cliche and immediately puts one level below oneself in intellectual level. And at the same time he does not even think about the fact that he may be wrong. How, after all, each of us initially considers himself and only himself the one and only right.
Or the so-called clichés in the workplace about professions. For some reason, it is believed that if you graduated in one profession from the institute and worked in these areas of this profession for a certain and fairly large amount of time, then you are certainly an accountant or whoever you worked as. And how is it so you can rock the boat into something else, or apply for other roles in life, or want and be just different in mind, character, habits and vision of life. How is it - this is wrong.
Or it’s easier for a woman, just because she’s a woman, to stick a label, oh, yes, she’s cute, so she’s a fool. Or, if a woman is not very attractive at the moment - well, she simply had her own personal priorities and vision of life at one time. Immediately in the head of men, and women, it sounds: scary, which means smart. Well, let's start from this … And look weak from a different angle? And you try to dress her up or simply buy her a subscription to a sauna, a salon, a beautiful chic dress, and what … Not scary anymore …
Yes, also smart. But it doesn't work like that. It is not right…
And who came up with these rules. Yes, and each of us has his own rules, individual and personal. And why each of us strives to break the world under his own ruler. Everyone has their own ruler.
But after all, each and every one has his own.
Each person has its own sides of the mind and eccentricity, however, maybe they are turned in the other direction than the majority, and all people are beautiful, but each in its own way. Especially individually.
There is absolutely no need to row everyone with the same brush. It is not necessary at all. It will be boring to live.
Just imagine a world made up of Angeline Jolie and Brad Pitts. Well, is that boring? Horror. Here, and I'm about the same. Yes, and Angelina Jolie is so good that she has remained and remains herself, and Brad Pitt does not strive to be John Travolta, and so he stands out. And so, he's good
And gluing labels only generates wild envy and inhuman anger in the world. Let's appreciate and love ourselves for who we are and therefore we will immediately think that people are all different and so they are good, even if they do not look like you or recognized standards of beauty or recognized geniuses of the mind.
Be yourself and appreciate yourself and the people around you for their individuality and originality.