A person understands that in order to change his life, he needs to change himself. How not to be afraid to change, or Why is it not scary to be yourself?
Everything in the world is constantly changing. Even within one short human life, many changes occur, especially if a person strives for this consciously. This position is chosen by those who want to achieve more than they already have. A person understands that in order to change his life, he needs to change himself: to develop some qualities in himself, to gain certain knowledge, to form new skills. For this purpose, a person usually comes to training.
At the beginning of classes, I always ask my students why they came, what they expect from the training. It is very important that the person is aware of his intention. Then he will be able to manage the process of his life changes, or at least correct it. But even if a person does not really know what he wants, changes are inevitable. After all, the desire for change is inherent in us by nature itself. But external circumstances determine at what speed and in what direction they will be carried out. If circumstances are modeled by life, then a person is simply fatally pulled into this whirlpool. If he forms them himself, then he “polishes” himself.
Once a friend asked me: "How do you want to change, slowly and less painfully, or quickly, but painfully?" Her question prompted me to think about why, subconsciously desiring change, people are doing everything possible to prevent this from happening. For this purpose, a whole performance is sometimes performed depicting seething activity. In fact, this activity often hides the fear of true change. Therefore, a person simply runs in a circle, not realizing that not all vigorous activity leads to sustainable changes.
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Would a little boy be able to defend his conviction with such perseverance if it did not correspond to his purpose? Could his tough miner father not only come to terms with his son's strange behavior, but also change his own beliefs in order to earn money and pay for his studies at a prestigious ballet school, if it was just a whim?
And now I will tell you the most important thing: do not be afraid to change, do not be afraid of disapproval and misunderstanding of loved ones. Even if the internal changes that occur in you cause them discomfort, they will change their attitude as soon as these changes cover all levels of your manifestation. By doing this, you will help them themselves to realize who they are and why they live. Oddly enough, you can not understand (the level of belief), but accept (the level of personality and mission), because feelings are stronger than the mind. We admire strong personalities who have managed to defend their right to be themselves. Want to be truly respected and accepted for who you are, put your doubts aside and overcome your fear. The path to yourself can be painful, thorny and long, but it is worth it. This is my personal belief. I wish it was yours - the result of your personal experience!
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