Raucous. The women are to blame! How to raise a child. The little boy plunges into the world of women, sometimes so bizarre and contradictory that the fragile child's psyche does not stand it and breaks down.
The main heroine of the Russian film "Fool" loved to talk about the "manhood" of men. The word, of course, is clumsy, but the term is correct - raiding.
Modern women often accuse men of infantilism and weakness. Of course, women are right - well, we do not pull on knights without fear and reproach.
But just as soldiers are not born, but become, so men turn into "teddy bears" largely under the influence of external factors. And the women themselves marry men, sadly.
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It just so happened historically that our system of basic education and upbringing of both girls and boys is entirely in the hands of women. Willy-nilly, the little boy plunges into the world of women, sometimes so bizarre and contradictory that the fragile child's psyche cannot stand it and breaks down. We, men, reap the fruits of such enlightenment already in adulthood, when all the same women begin to demand decisiveness, energy, fortitude and other purely masculine qualities from us, which they diligently squeezed out of us in childhood.
My first negative experience with women came during my years in kindergarten. The teacher, an obese aunt of pre-retirement age with a thunderous voice, accustoming us, foolish children, to order, screamed so that the children's cry did not subside for a second. It sounds absurd: for the first time in my life I heard obscene words from the mouth of a kindergarten teacher - it was she who cursed her thankless job.
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Once a week, the head teacher came to our class and gave lectures on discipline. Boys, follow the example of girls! At breaks, they do not rush around the school like crazy, but, holding hands, walk in pairs with dignity. Damn it, boys don't have to be goodies, they have to run, jump, make noise, fight, after all! But no - it is not allowed. But the girls are smart; they are more obedient, which means much better than boys.
Many boys with the triumph of the female dominant and an active policy of malevolence are also faced at home. Some divorced mothers do not buy dolls for their sons and dress them up in dresses. Mothers are often visited by girlfriends, the same unsettled ladies, and, not ashamed of a child (albeit a small one, but men, by the way), they vying with each other begin to complain, "what all the men are bastards." In their man-hatred, individual mothers sometimes go to the point of frenzy: "If you behave this way, you will grow up to be the same cattle as your father!"
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Lowered below the plinth by all the women around him, the boy, nevertheless, asks questions: why are women better than men? Why should you treat them like crystal vases when they are all so aggressive themselves? Why should he, a boy, constantly follow the example of girls, but at the same time he has no right to even cry from pain or resentment (“Why are you crying like a girl”)? Aren't there too many such complex and serious questions revolving in the head of a very young man who is just beginning to learn about the world?
Perhaps boys, especially the sons of single mothers, should be raised by male teachers.
After all, only they can instill in children real masculine qualities and explain that women are not only "crystal vases", monstrous nannies and mother's friends who are not distinguished by intelligence and tact.
Women - they are all sorts, and mostly good. And you need to treat them like a man: with love, magnanimity and not forgetting about your dignity.
