Whom do men of our time choose? What do the heroes of the stone jungle pay attention to? Gentlemen of the middle of the last century, as you know, preferred blondes. Whom do men of our time choose? What are the criteria for selection in modern society? What do the heroes of the stone jungle pay attention to?
Undoubtedly, the most important factor is appearance. That is, intelligence, charm, skill in bed also play not unimportant roles, but … in order to initially attract attention you need to be bright, or vice versa - completely invisible, a kind of gray mouse. It is easier for someone to approach a girl who does not have a model appearance. Like, it will be easier with her, and she will not present a list of conditions and requirements.
So, the first and most important thing is the cover: how we present ourselves (the totality of kilograms, make-ups and labels).
Further, as with any cover, follows the content. I think contemplating the beautiful is a wonderful and pleasant occupation, but … (again, this is but!) Here the most important thing with him (that is, with the content) is not to overdo it, I just want to say this phrase, that's just why ?!
How many times did my mother, grandmother, an experienced neighbor, a work colleague say (just an endless list can turn out), how many times did books and magazines advise on how to behave with men in a given situation ?!
And do not bother them with their stupid conversations, and do not be too taciturn or boring (in no case can you show that you can be smarter, keep it like a partisan a secret package). A natural question arises: why? Why do all this? So that you can cry all your life because you are not what he used to think of you? Is it really a crime to be yourself?
Further, the attention of the stronger sex scatters and slides along the curves of the forms. And here a rather moral, ethical question arises: on what date is it already possible to kiss (have sex)? Will I seem too accessible / unavailable? Really, men are engaged in self-flagellation and constant reflection? And who can determine the norms of morality and behavior for us and why should we follow someone else's rules?
It is believed that men do not like women who are too successful. Should I pretend to be a failure?
How to meet the criteria for selection and not lose yourself?
